I was the guy who always said yes. Family, friends, work — everyone had a key to my time and my energy, and I had none left for the things that mattered. Learning to say no felt like betrayal at first. Now I understand: a boundary isn’t a wall against people. It’s a door I finally get to control.
— James
Sit With This
Whose access to you do you need to renegotiate?
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